Sorry, I cant respond to lists of aspects. The fellow and I have composite sun/Mercury conjunct in the 12th, making an out of sign conjunction to the ascendant. Overall the chart has a heavy emphasis on the 10-12 houses, and no planets at all in the 5-9 houses, with the exception of Chiron in the 8th house (which sextiles the MC and trines the Moon/Mars as well). I will always be exactly where I am now loving you. They might not be opposed to using under-handed tactics in order to receive information or get what they desire. It often helps to work together on projects they find meaningful, or to spend some time doing community or charity work. The part about unrequited love was particularly interesting and that other part might not know what we exist. It was a complicated, intense, spicy hot love affair that changed both of our lives. There is also a Mars in the 12th that doesnt get really any support from anything. Such a great article! We still keep in touch as just friends occasionally, and sometimes I feel like I am having conversations with him in my head. I cant really comment without seeing the charts. Composite, Davison Chart . His north node in his 12th in pisces which means he will have to travel from a more material existence to a spiritual one in his lifetime, but that could take another 20 years. in the 12th house, you might be safe in assuming that there was a marriage or long-term relationship in a past life. sorry Ive made an error : it is not his descendant point, it is his IC point. let go or fight for it? I read once if someones pluto is attached to his own north node that would mean if the person puts anything between himself and god he will loose it, because that is what Pluto teaches. He just wanted to keep it physical until one of us gets married with someone else. There is also Mercury in Taurus at 12 degrees, but this is in the 1st. We all find our gods where we can and must. Thank you for this series of articles! There are lots of couples with heavy 12th house influence who are out in the open. More, we have a 5 cluster Scorpio in 9 (Moon, Venus, Neptune, Jupiter and Mercury), a composite Sun in Sag in 10, with Pluto and Uranus conjunct in 7 and unaspectted Gemini NN in 4 we also have a lot of 6/12 house contacts in synastry and 21 conjunctions (far from being easy!) Couples with a heavy 12th house/ 6th house polarity have to find a way to put their wisdom to some practical use. *Composite Chiron conjunct Moon in Taurus in 12th house. And what does it mean our 12th. So beautifully written Dawn. Thank You for Your answer and best regards from Hungary! thanks!! thank you for your insight, thank you !!! this is honestly so beautiful to read. Thank you. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. 12th House seems to be the most frightening of all the houses to me, because the primal urge towards each other is such a deep and profoundly spiritual one, that you think, theres no way I could find this depth with another. We talk with each other and I know he loved me and still does like me , we talk in the church when we can but none of us really telling the real story (which is so 12 house thing). Sometimes we will be asked to make leaps of faith. My natal Venus conjuncts composite IC and his natal Mars conjuncts composite MC. But venus, mars, moon and vertex in the first house in pisces. We share the same dreams, communicate telepathically, had a fated magnetic meeting; we are truly best friends. Find a way to bring the god down to the day to day world, so that it, too, is considered sacred. If I did not believe in Karma or Fate now I do not have ANY DOUBT that really something runs our life from out there for good or bad Its a huge task, but often one the 12th house couple is uniquely suited for. Romantic Conjunctions in the 12th House. The Mars/Neptune square did bring an element of slipperiness, but mostly irritating fibbing on his part. What do you think? 12th House : A busy 12th house is very difficult in a composite chart, since it's the house of the unconscious feelings and all things hidden, so there will be a lot of miscommunication between the two. This position can show one person makes all of the sacrifices and the other person takes everything . I am a Sag with moon (12th house) and rising both in scorpio. When your North Node is in the 12th house of your partner's natal chart, you will help the 12th house native become more spiritual and grow as a person. Now we hate each other and nothing made sense. Thank You so much for Your answer! Thank you, Tricia. My takeaway is that the two people involved would think the relationship was hidden (and something for just them) but its not really because of the nature of the Asc Conjunctions. We move from the personal world, giving up our individuality along the way, to become a plaything of the collective unconscious. Our date was perfect but too creepy cause he told his very deep secrets and early regrets to me. I really feel like there is a wolf howling in a forest at night and I hear his call , I know I am the female wolf and that the call is for me and I have to go to him now. . Either the energy of the planet is lost, confused, diffused and (at least in our early years) ineffective, or the planet can completely embody its archetype for all to see, often after overcoming great difficulties and reversals, sometimes in extreme circumstances. The higher powers are always tapping at the door, insisting on change, cleansing, and renewal from within (Pluto/Uranus in Virgo), but how do you do that if your connection to the other world and the higher powers are full of fear and resistant to the necessary dissolving that must occur (Saturn in Pisces). Neptunes great teaching is that love is a powerful force in and of itself, and should not be used as a binder. You are interested in psychology, religion, spirituality too. Are these water houses the culprits that keep pulling me back? This makes so much sense. You need a synastry reading to make sense of all this. We are still friends and well always love each other. I dont quite know what it all means but I like what you wrote here and will keep it in mind for future reference: [Couples with a heavy 12th house/ 6th house polarity have to find a way to put their wisdom to some practical use. Sorry I cant get into too much detail here, but if your composite Sun is conjunct Saturn, Pluto and the Ascendant then you can only take comfort in the fact that the relationship is meant to be transforming and spiritually challenging. Both of us are on a spiritual path, which is very important to each of us. IF THIS IS NOT A TRAGIC LOVE STORY THAN WHAT IS? Besides, his vertex conjunct with my sun and oppose w/ my moon. It was emotional and intense, also warm and familiar at the same time. I dont know if he felt the same deep feelings but I know he was puzzled by the sex. Saturn, NN, and Sun exact at 28 degrees, opposite Chiron Rx in Cancer. taurus venus-mars conjunction in Your opinion? Jupiter in 1st house, Uranus in the 11th to bracket the party. If I murdered this illusion, it would be like if I murdered my own soul ; I just cant . VENUS IN HOUSE TWELVE Venus in the 12th house cultivates a spiritually profound form of love and a desire to experience love on a higher level. When we left to go home I literally felt a piece of me inside left. Often, Sun/Neptune relationships just fade away or dissolve without anyone knowing why. What do You think about Davison Chart? Im sorry, Kyveli, but this is too complex a question to answer in the space here. I need all the help to understand I can get. . i imagine these aspects can point to a past life where there was dominance in the work field isuees? This is where our own shadow meets the shadow of the collective. A recent class in assassins revealed that the victims often had many planets in the shooters 12th house. Venus is the planet of love which makes him lovable by his likable behavior and persuasive way of talking. Thank you very much for the answer. Emotional Suppression. We could look at each other and read one anothers minds, but not in a way where you hear words or anything. He told me that had never happened to him before (referring to how we couldnt control ourselves). Several weeks ago, my wife revealed that she has been hiding a secret life of crushes and short-lived affairs from me over the past 4 years. I cant stop the regretful feelings. Gilly. Composite Pluto in the 12th House With Composite Pluto in the 12th house, you may struggle over power and control in ways that aren't obvious. If the Composite Sun is in the 1 st House, there will be a focus on this relationship. Astrology Symbols, Elements, Modalities, & House Types. Through the sixth house, you must learn to function in the world efficiently and take up the calling to serve Humanity. I became reacquainted with a man I grew up with. Planets in the 12th can behave in one of several ways. They seem bonded before a word is spoken. Im trying to determine the karmic lessons we need to learn from this. Im trying to figure it out. It feels that we are very free together than alone. We have a meaningful journey to take together, but we must ultimately be alone. Thank You for Your answer and best regards from Hungary! I am not an expert but this artical ssure proves the writer of it right! As far as the four major asteroids are concerned, I find that house position is not as important as aspect. Its bad enough that we have difficulties with the 12th house when it involves the natal chart, but it often is downright cruel when were trying to negotiate its slippery slopes in a composite. His 12th is in Pisces, along with his Sun, Mercury, Venus and Mars. Im kinda tired of dancing with men who enjoy attempting control and am tired of the endlessly unavailable creatures that keep crossing my path in life. I feel so relieved after reading it because I really thought i was crazy. The Sun and Moon in the 7th house are especially encouraging for a new relationship (if you're single) because your main focus for the year (the Sun) plus your emotional concerns will be united in that area. (Our North Node rulers often lead us down these blind alleyways.) Do you think that is true? a strong karmic tie is indicated in the 12th house, or in the other water houses 4,8. He knows me better than I know myself at times. We grasp for the handrail, and find nothing to hold on to. Venus in 12th House Man. I mentioned Juno because it has a 1 degree conjunction with the Sun. Neptune tries to tell us that we cant own anything permanently, and if we try to possess and not understand the message of universal love (love is its own reward) it will pry our grasping fingers off of whatever we are trying to hold on to. By the way, in progressions, you very clearly see the influence of both planets at work. The person with the most crowded 12th house in history is Ann Margret, a Swedish born actor best known for her iconic Easy Rider bike scene and starring in Viva Los Vegas alongside Elvis Presley. Guess our trines from Sun/Moon to Jupiter arent enough to off set. Im from a country in southamerica. In my natal I have mars and mercury in 12th house Gemini. *Also in synastry- my Vesta conjunct NN in Gemini are the degree right before his Ascendant. Eventually, we learn that life is not as random as we thought, but full of purpose and meaning. In this relationship, you tend to agree to a no-obligation arrangement from the start. Saturn is the heaviest aspected planet in this composite, which actually reinforces the intensity of the Moon/Saturn-opposite theme from synastry. Some relationships have terrible natal comparisons and good composites. Lilith in the 12th House is an unusual placement because it revolves around the dark side of your life and its unseen parts. (like your name too. The Davison chart is a time/space chart and is anchored in the here and now. We are very romantic together and trust each other. I think that your article is quite amazing, but for those of us who are making these relationships work for us I wish you would have given some cases in which it can work. Lilith in 12th House: 5 Key Takeaways. the davison chart also has our moon, venus, saturn and uranus in the 1st. When composite Lilith is placed in the eighth house of the composite chart, this makes the relationship between the two people very intense. The Inner Wheel Recommended Astrology Reading Lists, Crucible and the Wheel: The Transiting Nodes Series. Lilith in partner's 12th house may represent emotional outbursts, manipulations and obsessions. These are just a few of the synastry aspects. Like individuals with 12th house planets, couples with a lot of twelfth house may feel that there is something fated about their lives together. He told me he had butterflies I did too.his nn is conjunct my ascendant. As a 12th house person, I finally realized I enjoy the confusion. i have it conjunct in our davison3rd house- and opposite in4th-10th in composite. Overall, this is considered a favorable Lilith placement, as it is . Greetings. We challenge each other to be the best versions of ourselves. You may keep your feelings for each other to yourselves, not feeling safe expressing them for whatever reason. I am Sun in Aries, Asc in Leo and Moon in Aquarius, and he is Sun in Leo, Asc in Gemini and Moon in Leo. I loved him from the bottom of my heart. I would need a full synastry to really answer your question. Arent these positive aspects good enough to sustain a relationship down-to-earth, telling me to forgive and try again or just simply blowing the matter worse and prolonging it?. Saturn and Pluto and Ascedant. I hope you are well during these strange and powerful times. I found so many answers and maybe some dissapointments as well :/. I am a strong 12th house person- the sun in Libra conjunct Pluto/Mercury in Scorpio, with Saturn in Scorpio widely conjunct my Scorpio ascendent (I told you I was intense) and he has no planets in the 12th. What to make of this? Great gifts are possible if that Saturn is respectedthe power of manifesting energy into form. I have been so confused and you describe it so accurately. The Autumn Schedule is Here! The attraction was instant. Hi Evelyne. yeah, i think we didnt invest much efforts in getting/staying togetherhowever, when I tried to pursue more, I felt as if I was more needy and I cared more about this relationship, as his respose to my efforts was quite blank and gruff. More appreciative of that special melding? When transit Neptune is in the composite 12th house, you can explore your spiritual connection, and want to make sure that youre intuitively moving in the same direction. Oftentimes, once we surrender to the powers of the 12th house, our lives are transformed by meaning, because those unlikely connections have brought us a wisdom beyond our time together. The composite AC is Scorpio Pluto in 12th (only planet) and Mars in 8th. Sometimes the ego gets in the way of our path, whether through fear, resistance to growth, resistance to break old habits and personal tendencies, or through a lack of interest in what is wanted of us. Whether the energy between them manifests positively or negatively has to do with aspects to Pluto in both charts and aspects with the North Node rulers. Thanks! But I do have one question? Although Im aware this is only an illusion of my mind and nothing else , this illusion is so strong and so frequent that I ve at least learned to live with it and Ive given up struggling against it. The house is famous for being the house of self-undoing, but it can also be the house where we find our fame and fortune. While separated from his girlfriend and in the final stages of breaking it off with her, we had several secret liaisons- more 12th house. Hello, Skye. However, what happens when we join together as a couple/entity is reflected in the composite chart. Astro-Seek.com Seek and meet people born on the same date as you . It will revolve around sorrow, secrets, fantasies, hidden desires, emotions, and everything that belongs to our little secrets without physical forms. My natal chart ruler is the Moon and his natal chart ruler is Mars. Since your Part of Fortune is in the 12th house of your birth chart, the sixth house is the opposite house. On the one hand We are meant to be on the other, But if we are, why is it so hard?, When a couple has planets, or an important planet, in the 12th, it can go a couple of ways. I thought that because of the 8th house or vertex, I forced him to confront his own dark side. Ive recently broke up with what was felt the love of my life the most pure and locvng relationship ever. This depends on how well Lilith energy is being handled in the synastry and natal chart. Now, what to think of this powerful symbolism in the composite chart? The 12th house is all about past life astrology, so the planets can . Its a damn shame, but I cant make him more a more spiritual person, just because our powerful connection together is deep and spiritual.